I understand when someone talks about their struggles in trying to escape.
In trying to escape both the physical poverty they were born in to…
And the paralysing self-doubt and debilitating mental poverty that continues to stifle their growth and self-development way into their 20’s and beyond.
In a banned MTV interview with Tupac Shakur, 2Pac shares a powerful message:
When you’re born, usually you’re born into a dynasty or an empire (…) following in your father’s, grandfather’s footsteps. You’re always told “oh your father, your grandfather did this” so we got this, the family heirlooms…
There’s none of that in the outer city. I call it the outer city ’cause we left out. There’s no nothin’.
We didn’t get any family heirlooms, the family crest…all of that stuff that you would think was so important was meaningless. I mean come on – our family crest was cotton (…)
The only thing we could leave behind is culture, is music, dignity, and determination. That’s all we had.
I feel as though I’m cheated because instead of me fulfilling my prophecy, I have to start one. Instead of doing a good job and carrying on an empire, I have to build one.
And that’s a helluva’ job for a twenty-one year old. That’s a helluva’ job for any youngster, male or female, to have to build an empire for your family.
Especially when the odds are that you know that somebody else who lives in the inner city – the real inner city, suburbia – who, when he’s born at 16 he gets a car, [it’s] automatic. There’s money in the bank for college, for Christmas you go for vacation somewhere…”
Skip to 3:17-4:43 to watch the bit of the interview relevant to this post, but I urge you to watch the whole thing. It’s illuminating.
Build an empire
It’s easy to get bitter about not getting the springboard to an awesome life that you deserve or to whine and complain about how easy others have it while for you it’s always been an uphill battle.
You can wallow in self-pity, be bitter or angry about the fact that others get things handed to them with no resistance while you’re constantly struggling – but that’s life.
The gazelle can complain about the lion until it goes blue in the face.
Ain’t nothing gonna change.
Adjust your beliefs to enable you to function in the objective world – not in the idealised, fantasy world of how you wish the world to be.
Because you are not entitled to anything and the world owes you nothing.
If you want something – you have to go to get it.
Though you may have escaped or are still yet to escape the physical poverty you might be living in, you also have the job of having to de-programme yourself from the mental poverty that you were conditioned into from a very young age.
Because you can’t build an empire on shaky foundations.
Develop an inner directness whereby you yourself decide how to live and develop the necessary metal support structures to help you along your way like a strong self-confidence, self-assuredness, and high self-esteem.
Those things don’t come from reading only.
You need action; what you do will change how you think.
And you need to win small victories to climb the mountain.
But it’s definitely possible – you can still build an empire.
You’ll just have to work harder for it.
But the best thing about is that it’ll be your very own.
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